Discover a heartfelt story of loss and healing. Join me as I share my experience of losing my brother at 16 and learn how grief has shaped my understanding of life, love, and connection. Watch the video for an intimate glimpse into my journey through grief.
As a counsellor, I regularly help people navigate the turbulent waters of grief. It’s an emotion so powerful and profound that it defies complete understanding until it touches our lives. In this video, I share my journey through grief stemming from the loss of my brother when I was just 16. Here’s a snippet from that poignant moment:
“My brother, Scott, had been in the hospital for what we believed was a routine issue. He’d been in and out for a couple of months. So, when my dad showed up unexpectedly at my rugby training, I sensed something was wrong. I walked over and asked, ‘What’s going on, Dad?’ He turned to me, speechless, with red and raw eyes. It was the first time I truly understood intuition. Without a word, I knew. ‘It’s Scott, isn’t it?’ I asked. My dad nodded, unable to speak. ‘He’s dead, isn’t he?’ I pressed. And again, he nodded. At that moment, my whole life caved in. The foundations of my life collapsed.”
Watch the full video to delve deeper into my experience of grief and discover how it shaped my belief that life is ultimately about love and connection.


